Archive for the ‘Relationships’ Category

Saving Money on Wedding Invatations

Sunday, January 20th, 2008

As my fiancée and I are not exactly loaded with money, we have been looking for ways to save on the wedding. The other night I had a great idea for mailing out our invitations. Instead of putting the recipients address in the regular area, I thought we could just put it in the return address area instead, moving our address from the return field to the recipients field. Once that is done, drop it in a mailbox some where without a stamp on it (preferably not your own). Then when the mail man gets it he “returns” it to the “recipient” because they did not use the proper postage when mailing the invitation.

For some reason this idea which would save us over $40.00 in postage was shot down as ‘crass.’

;-)

Father and Husband

Thursday, January 10th, 2008

After have a tough go the last few weeks I have been thinking about the different roles and offices that God imposes on a man.

One, He calls a man to be a father.  This office is a shadow God the Father.  As God raises and guides us, so should he.

Two. A man and his wife participate in bearing the Image of God when they join in marriage and bear children.  Each on their own are not able to bear children, revealing the selfishness of saying, “I want to have children.”  Each man and woman, one in flesh, partake of the office by procreating.

Three.  When a man takes a wife he taking on the role of Christ towards the Church.  It is for her he is crushed.

In theory when a man asks a Christian woman to be his wife, all of these roles should keep the process of generation working smoothly.  The groom and the Father-in-law are probably both very aware that they have demanding offices imposed upon them.  This must contribute to things not going as smoothly as they should.